"The only thing better than love at first sight is love with insight".

Extracted from a forum at www.islamicaweb.com
Notice that quote. Love at first sight is all emotion and no insight. It's hormonally driven and all about bells and whistles. Love at first sight gets our juices flowing, and in the end, it's pretty meaningless. Love with insight is the ability to truly see the love object, which might be pretty much anything, in a clear and thoughtful and yet not attached, not emotional way.

When we are caught in the emotion of "love," (or any emotion, for that matter) then scowling is inevitable. We have "fallen down and can't get up," trapped ("Tight??") in our illusions, our fantasies, our need to control others or situations. When we are iving with insight, we see from multiple perspectives. We allow others to be who they are, while choosing not to "be" them just because we care about them. We hold on to all things with a light touch. A non-critical, non-judgemental touch.

In this lightly holding stance, our bodies begin to flow, naturally. Using pressure and Bodywork, we learn to "let go" of chronic tension, even the tension we no longer feel, numb as we are. The pressure ("I think my head is going to explode!") is no longer necessary, nor appreciated, so it can simply be put aside.

I am guilty.
Guillty of denying the insight.
Guilty of denying the truth till it transpired.
Was the insight tranparent to you?
Are you guilty?
Are we guilty?
I am guilty.
Truths will only transpire when we unwearyingly waits for HIS calls.